Ten years ago, I wrote these New Year's Resolution for 2012.
They are as relevant today as then.
I will strive to. . .
Live each day to the fullest and
allow the activities of that day to take me on new, winding journeys I
never expected. “Ninety-five percent of the people who died today had
expected to live a lot longer.” --Albert M. Wells, Jr.
Be more patient with
people, family, processes, my writing, distractions—even slow
elevators. We must learn that, like the farmers, we can’t sow and reap
the same day.
Exercise more, listen more, laugh more. . . and let the future come one day at a time, as it always does.
Enjoy my
home to its fullest, despite the work, dust and menial chores that
surround me which often gobble time set aside for writing. After all,
home is where you hang your heart.
Dream . . . or rather allow myself
the luxury to dream. Dreams are the heart of creativity. “The poorest
of all men is not the man without a cent, but a man without a dream.”
Handle criticism graciously.
“If it’s untrue, disregard it. If it’s unfair, keep from irritation. If
it’s ignorant, smile. If it's justified, learn from it." --Anonymous
Be grateful
for the doors of opportunity. . .and for friends who oil the hinges. As
writers, we need our family, our friends, and other writers who understand the trials and toils of the writing process.
Help
find and better define truth in the world. We have lost sight of the
importance of truth and honesty in our lives. Our media and people today
have failed to delineate the difference between fact versus opinion.
“Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.”-- Aldous Huxley
Understand
and accept that peace does not mean the same thing (or have the same
definition) for all the people who inhabit our world. Therefore, as part
of a U.S. military family, I will pray for a peace that will remove all
our men and women in foreign lands and bring them home to
the safety of American soil. “God blesses those who work for peace, for
they shall be called the children of God.” Matthew 5:9
Reiterate my daily mantra in the New 2022 Year to all who will listen:
“Never let anyone steal your joy.”