Do you sometimes get impatient?
I do. Just ask my husband. He’ll probably reveal that I’m very good at it. I’ve
learned that people who prefer to be busy most of their waking moments seem to
have the most problem with being patient. And, I’m a person who likes to be
busy.
In modern terms of today,
patience is described as the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset. And, virtue is
described at behavior showing high moral standards. The other day I pondered
how the definition of patience today has changed so drastically from its definition of fifteen centuries ago.
The phrase, patience is a virtue, is a proverbial
phrase, transmitted by oral tradition, dating back to the fifth century A.D. from
an epic poem called Psychomachig which was written
by late antique Latin poet, Prudentius. His seven heavenly virtues are in
response to the seven deadly sins, updated also in fifth century A.D. by Pope
Gregory I. Obviously, these two opposite groups, virtues and sins, represent
the battle between good and evil.
What are the seven virtues?
They are chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, kindness , patience,
and humility. The deadly sins are: lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, envy, wrath,
and pride. (Each virtue is considered the opposite of each sin and is listed in
the same numerical order.) Thus, patience is used to combat wrath.
But in today’s world, I
believe patience now has many different variations and degrees as opposed to
its earlier meaning. We are currently living in a world quite unlike the 15th
century where people lived in rural villages, life expectancy was 35 years old,
and communications was word of mouth.
According
to the medical community, patience is a
skill that can be learned
and practiced. It’s a result of choosing to emphasize thinking over feeling. The ability of technology to deliver immediate responses
has caused us, as humans, to become more impatience. After all, we no longer
write letters. Even phone calls take time. We now prefer to message others on
our cellphones for a “quick” response.So how does one solve being impatient? It
entails learning to re-evaluate why you
are impatient at a specific moment. Slowing down, re-evaluating the situation,
focusing on priorities, accepting the inevitable—even resting are some of many
ways to help people cope with irritating and annoyed feelings we call
impatience.
As our frosty season approaches
in Pennsylvania, I’m very content to virtuously and patiently wait as November
transitions into winter. You see, I’m not a big fan of Old Man Winter.
Come March, however, I suspect I’ll
throw virtue out the window. I’ll be on the lookout daily for Flora, the Greek Goddess of spring buds and green shoots. Will I be impatiently waiting? Only time will tell.
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